How to Tell if a Woman is Faking — An Escort Interview 🤔

The eyes say everything. 👀

If you haven't read "Why Women Fake It" yet, start there. This post is the companion piece - same topic, different angle. That one explains the why. This one is the how to tell.

First, a confession. 😄

Yes. I have faked it.

I am going to say that clearly and without apology because every woman reading this is nodding and every man reading this just sat up a little straighter.

Sometimes it just isn't going to happen. Hormones, lack of sleep, stress, not feeling well - performance issues are not exclusively a male experience, despite what popular culture would have you believe. Women have them too. We just have more practice at hiding it.

And sometimes, if we are being completely real with each other - sometimes you just want to go to sleep. 💤

I cannot speak for all women, only myself. But I believe every woman has faked it at least once. Anyone who tells you otherwise is either extraordinarily lucky or still faking it right now. 😂

What faking actually looks like. 🎭

Women can fake a remarkable range of theatrics. Heavy breathing. Vocalization. Movement. The full performance. We are, many of us, excellent actresses when the occasion calls for it.

But here is the thing about a performance: it tends to start too early and run too long.

If the theatrics begin before she has had nearly enough time to warm up - and women do take time to warm up, this is not optional biology, this is just how it works - that is your first clue. Genuine responses build. They do not arrive on cue in the first five minutes like a Broadway opening number.

Over-performing is the other tell. When someone is genuinely turned on, they are not thinking about their performance. They are not thinking about much of anything coherent, frankly. Excessive, polished, suspiciously well-timed theatrics are often a sign of someone compensating for the absence of the real thing.

What you cannot fake. ✨

Here is where I have to be a little cryptic - because this is a PG rated blog and I made a promise - but I will say this:

Women and men are not actually that different when it comes to certain core physical responses.

The body does things it cannot be instructed to do. There are involuntary reactions that no amount of theatrical talent can manufacture. I cannot go into anatomical detail here - you will have to use your imagination and possibly your search engine 😄 - but they exist, they are real, and they are the most reliable indicator available.

Pay attention. The body does not lie even when the performance does.

What the real thing actually looks like. 🔥

Since I can speak only for myself, here is my completely personal and entirely accurate answer.

When it is real - genuinely, actually real - endorphins, serotonin and oxytocin are flooding through my body simultaneously and I cannot complete a sentence. I am left completely breathless. I can be very vocal. And it almost always ends the same way: a giant Cheshire cat perma-grin that I could not remove from my face if I tried.

Sometimes I even laugh. Not because anything is funny - because there are so many chemicals moving through my body at once that laughter is apparently the overflow valve. 😁

That grin is not something I can fake. If you see it, you did something right.

The short version. ❤️

Too early, too polished and too perfectly timed is a performance. Breathless, involuntary, slightly incoherent and ending in an involuntary grin is the real thing.

And if she is quietly watching the ceiling with the expression of someone mentally reorganizing her kitchen - she is thinking about going to sleep or her to-do list. 💤

Be worth staying awake for. That is really the only advice that matters.

And if all else fails... 😄

If you genuinely cannot tell, or she simply isn't reaching the goal post - ask her to show you how she does it herself.

You're welcome. 😉

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